I have struggled with what to post on this Holiday weekend. Thanksgiving is all about giving thanks and yet this four day holiday period seems more oriented shopping now then dwelling on Thankfulness. I see America’s financial woes as being not just Macroeconomic problems (big picture stuff like budget deficit, taxes, balance of trade and the decline of manufacturing jobs), but macroeconomic problems centered around the American family.Â
In my opinion in simple terms Americans spend too much, save too little and invest poorly. I was blessed to know my Dad for many reasons, but watching Dad shop has paid unexpected bonuses all my life. Dad was a tighted fisted shopper. Dad spent twenty years in the military. He joined the army when he was 18 right after he dropped out of high school. When he retired 20 years later he a wife, six kids, a college degree, a paid for station wagon, 20K in the bank and had paid for his oldest son’s 1st year of college. He retired as a staff Sgt. and yes he was disciplined in his work, but just as important he was disciplined in his spending. Â
We drove big bulky cars that lasted ten years or so. We lived in modest homes and the kids shared bedrooms and for several months the boys shared beds on the weekends when we were between quarters. Now we did have one big advantage. In the military there was little of this “keeping up with the Jones”. All the families lived in base housing more or less earned the same salaries worn the same clothes (uniforms) and drove very similar cars.Â
Today I see many people eating out  too much, taking too many vacations, driving too fancy a car, living in too big of a house, having too many electronic gadgets and more “too muches” to mention. I am a cranky old scrooge in many ways and perhaps I should just enjoy my meals out and not worry that my fellow diners are adding to a mountain of unpaid credit card debt. Yet statistics don’t lie and if 40% of Americans are carrying credit card debt and 50% of Americans have no savings at all. So  some of your fellow shoppers over the weekend are broke.Â
Its a family joke around our house today when I kid about having a “hard candy Christmas”. That’s when my stocking would have an Orange, an Apple, some nuts and that holiday “hard candy”. In addition I kid about the one Christmas I got a paper bag as my only present. I tell my kids “the paper bag  was not  a real present, but I could keep it  til next Christmas and then a real present could be put it in then.” As long as I kept my bag I knew I would be getting a gift in the future.  Okay the paper bag story was made up from some primal unfilled   need of mine , but yes I always got some hard candy. As a kid I always got presents, but not a lot of presents. I knew we did not get as much as some people and certainly never got everything we wanted. Yet we got enough within the framework of Dad’s saving plan.
So in my opinion America’s families need to go on a spending diet. Sure I blame America’s businesses to an extent. Its hard to get a 8K loan for a used car, but $100 down with get you in a new $17,000 car this weekend. Bad credit-not a problem-come on in. This weekend the more you spend the more you save. Yet its individuals you must whip out the credit cards, the cash or the check books this weekend.Â
Let me say that I am not unsympathetic to those folks who are struggling financially. My Dad spend a lifetime managing his money and my wife and I have been doing it for 30 years or so (we have only been married for 21 years, but were frugal before we married). So starting cold turkey is hard. You need a reliable car, good schools to attend, a safe neighborhood and if cooking is putting something in the microwave oven the journey will be very hard. Let me say that when you get a layoff notice that’s not the time to start managing your money. Its when you graduate from high school or college or get married or whenever you start out. I can preach a bit the savings life to 50 somethings, but to an extent at that age its damage control.Â
Its really the young folks who need to hear this year. The baby boomers have over spent and under saved. The Gen Xers and Y’ers or whatever people are called after the boomers need to really learn this lesson. If you spend your every last dime that is what you will have to live on when you are older.Â
In a policy sense that’s why there is such an immediacy about bailouts and such.  Many Americans have no margin or savings to fall back on. We have to have action quickly as millions are already on the brink of disaster. Look at the policy implications of the TARP business. We had to act so quickly because so many had nothing to fall back on. I might add that millions of home went into foreclosure in the 2007-2008 period during a period of economic growth and historically low unemployment. What will foreclosures be like if we hit 10% unemployment?  Americans and not government have to right this situation as its too big and family focused for a DC answer.  The solution to America’s problems start with conservations around the dinner table and not in the cabinet room.